Belonging
Are you standing where you belong?
Are you safe
Protected
Unhurt?
Are you tearing apart that refuge?
Oh Darlin’
For if you have not fallen apart
Failed spectacularly
Hurt miserably
You have not lived
You have not learned
You have not come alive.
To live or to be alive
For choose we must.
Becoming 
So true. So supportive to read. Thank you!
Thank you Will! Happy to hear these expressions resonate